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the holiday 5 gift rule

The 5 Gift Rule, Our New Christmas Tradition

The holidays are getting closer, which means it’s time to remember to be grateful for what we’ve been blessed with, and embrace the time we get to spend with our families and close friends. For us parents out there, it also means time to get holiday shopping started! Of course I love this time of year, but I don’t love shopping for Christmas gifts. Waiting in long lines in crowded shops (don’t get me started on Black Friday) and going from store-to-store trying to find that one item on your kid’s Christmas list that seems to be sold out everywhere. Not this year, this year Christmas is going to be a little bit different at our house because we’ve decided to implement the 5 Gift Rule.

Has anyone else heard of this little Christmas tradition? I actually just found out about it and thought it was a brilliant idea, how could I have not known about this before my daughters were born?!

Last year we cut back on gifts and spent the extra money on a vacation with the girls instead, which they had so much fun on—they still remember the gorgeous mountains we drove through going up to Virginia. It was a 12 day long holiday vacation, the longest vacation our family of 4 has been on, and it was all thanks to cutting back at Christmas, so the 5 gift rule sounded like the perfect Christmas tradition for our family!

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What’s the 5 Gift Rule?

Don’t know about the 5 Gift Rule? Here’s the gist of it… Instead of spending tons of money on a bunch of different presents, limit it to just 5 simple things: 1 gift they want, 1 gift they need, 1 gift they read, and 1 gift they don’t know they want, but you do! Some people even limit it to the 4-gift rule and stick to the first 4 on the list, it’s totally up to you.

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I came from a family with 3 siblings and growing up were all spoiled with loads of toys and gifts on Christmas morning. While we obviously loved the gifts when we were young, the older we got the less toys we received. I knew that there were less gifts under the tree as we grew up because the ones we received were more expensive, but even though I understood this I still remember the disappointment. I feel like if my parents had implemented the 5-gift rule from the start, there would have been no disappointment. We would have known what to expect and we would have learned to appreciate it so much more.

Why should you try this?

To teach thankfulness and remind then about the real meaning of Christmas.

So many times children get wrapped up in the gifts, in their minds (even though they know true meaning of Christmas) it’s all about Santa for them—it’s all about those presents under the tree. The 5 gift rule is there to remind them that Christmas is about more than just the presents. It teaches them to be thankful for the presents that they receive, rather than simply expecting loads gifts that they’ll probably forget about by next year! Anyone else feel the same way?!

It can help you from blowing your cover as the magical Santa Claus.

Tell them that one gift, either the gift that they really want or they one that they didn’t know they wanted, is from Santa. And then be honest about the rest of the gifts, them them that they’re from you (this also helps with the thankfulness). Now that they know that the majority of their gifts are coming from you, it won’t be such a shock when they finally discover that Santa isn’t real.

You’ll save money to spend on things they will remember.

I’m a huge believer in the saying “spend money on experience, not things,” I would so much rather spend that money on a family vacation because those memories will last longer than a toy that will be forgotten about and thrown in a closet. Instead of blowing all your “fun money” on toys this Christmas season, spend it on an adventure! One of your gifts could even be the promise of an exciting family vacation this summer.

Have you tried the 5 gift rule (or 4 gift rule)? Or do you have any other holiday gift-giving traditions that you think more parents should know about? Let me know in the comments, I’d love to hear them! I’m always looking for new ideas.

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Comments

  1. Jerry says

    December 21, 2019 at 2:43 am

    really nice article 🤗👌🎄💛

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    • Danielle McKean says

      January 8, 2020 at 3:00 pm

      Thank you 💕

      Reply
  2. Terri says

    September 12, 2020 at 9:44 pm

    I love this idea and I’m thinking about doing this for Christmas 2020 for my grandchildren. Would you be able to give me an Example of a gift for rule number five? Thank you!

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    • Danielle McKean says

      September 14, 2020 at 3:20 pm

      Absolutely! Number 5 would be something that you know they’d like, but they haven’t expressed that they wanted (this makes it more of a surprise vs. just buying gifts off a list!) For example, our girls love all things outdoors, so, we’re going to surprise them with a camping trip!

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  3. Lesley says

    December 19, 2020 at 7:52 pm

    Me 4 sons are all grown now with kids of their own, but I love the idea of the 4 or 5 gift limit for my grandkids. Two traditions that really meant a lot to our family was that there was always 1 special gift under the tree that was a “family game”, wrapped in wintery Christmas wrap, which came from Jack Frost, for the family to enjoy during cold wintery days. The other tradition was to select one roll of wrapping paper per child. 4 sons = 4 rolls of paper with different designs. So all your presents would be wrapped in one design making it easier on Christmas morning to know which gifts were yours and eliminating the need for labels AND you never knew what gifts were yours until the wrapping paper mystery was revealed. So on Christmas morning, we took 4 gifts, usually DVDS or something similar in size, placing one in front of each son and then our 4 boys would solve a puzzle to see which wrapping paper belonged to whom. Along the way, we would tell them how close they were, like maybe 1 right, or 2. It seems like a lot to explain until you try it and then it makes sense, but after all these years, my adult sons still talk about our “tradition”.

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    • Danielle McKean says

      April 1, 2021 at 2:53 pm

      I love the wrapping paper idea, Lesley! That sounds like so much fun and for everyone! Sorry that it took me so long to get back to you, but I so appreciate you sharing your family tradition 💕 I love hearing how others celebrate and finding new traditions we can start in our house while the girls are still young!

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Hi, I'm Danielle Mckean. I am a God lover, wife and mom of 3 girls. We live a healthy, fun, fit life and encourage others to do the same. I help positive, and motivated women start their own businesses and work from home while raising a family. We believe in having faith on our life journey, dreaming big and making a difference in this world. One family at a time. Feel free to reach out to me! I would love to connect with you & see how I can help you reach your health and fitness goals!! Find me on Facebook & join in on the fun every month! Welcome to my site! Read More…

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